Day 111- Low Self Esteem and Domestic Violence

Whenever we hear about women who are in an abusive relationship, our first thought is leave. When it comes to a woman with low self-esteem, it’s just not that easy. Women with low self-esteem are more likely to end up with a man that abuses them, because they usually think that they can’t do any better. So, although a woman in this situation may realize that what’s happening to her is wrong, she doesn’t think that she can survive without him. It’s not just the fear of the man that keeps these women around, it is their own view of themselves. Not to mention, these men remind them of how, supposedly, worthless and weak they are every day. Psychological abuse is just as damaging as physical abuse, which is clearly portrayed in films such as “The Color Purple.”

If you are one of these women, you can leave! You can survive without this man, and although you may not think that you’re not worthy, you definitely are! I know that leaving is not so simple, so seek out resources, reach out to people, and form a plan so that you can leave safely.

If you want to read more about this, you can visit: http://womensissues.about.com/od/domesticviolence/a/DomesticViolenceSelfEsteem.htm

 

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3 thoughts on “Day 111- Low Self Esteem and Domestic Violence

  1. “If you are one of these women, you can leave! You can survive without this man”

    yes, and youll be doing all your friends a favor, not just yourself. that said, this doesnt just apply to women that are dating men– it also applies to men dating abusive men, and women dating abusive women, and even (and especially– as there is practically no one to call) men dating abusive women. ladies who are being abused: the national domestic abuse hotline is 1-800-799-7233 (tty: 1-800-787-3224) men who are being abused: …sincerely good luck to you! ❤

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